MILONGA ... GAY OR NOT? MILONGA ... GAY OR NOT?
DEBATE ON SITE AFTER NOTICE OF MILONGA MALENA "GAY"
Date: April 29, 2009 12:16 PMMA that story is? The milonga is one for all, regardless of sexual orientation and those who want to dance with everyone, whether same-sex persons are of different sexes. That's the beauty of the tango, against all ghetto!
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Date: Wednesday, April 29, 2009, 16:49 .. but I would like to know that "sexual orientation" to a milonga and the kind of music that will be 'programmed. .. At least I have no surprises of any kind .... if anyone thinks milonguero doc warns a callous and too straight, which is only going to a local electronic tango and frequented by gay ...... just crazy! ! Rossana
Date: 29/04/2009 16.50Milonga gay! But what are these differences!! I find this a bad idea, ridiculous and beyond trend! Anna
Date: Thursday, April 30, 2009 11:54
The Lonely Planet, known travel guide and real x using a large number of citizens of the world, more specifically the "nightclub_discoteche "If the evenings are straight or queer! In the capital, unique and federal, the milonga of Tuesday '... Peru' and something ... and 'as gay and is strapubblicizzata GAY_oriented .... Hello Nicola I hope that last night it was a great evening! Carlito
Date: Thursday, April 30, 2009 13.26Non believe that to specify that a local or an event for gay or not be perceived as a separatist attitude ghettizzatorio or (excuse the horrible word). I think those who are scandalized at the thought of a milonga (or any other local) for which you specify the sexual orientation of visitors, neglects to do some basic considerations pratico.Io are not strictly gay, but I think that if the I would feel quite uncomfortable, alone in any area, inviting someone to dance of my own sex, who may not know, not knowing if this person is available or not: I was embarrassed to see me in the face of bewildering maybe this person who thinks they are crazy, and certainly would feel too embarrassed him / her at being invited / yy something that is not prepared / a. I could not have major problems going into the room with someone, but I am compelled to dance forever with this one, because of the impossibility of knowing in advance if anyone present is available to dance with someone of the same sex. Unless you plan to do a series of preliminary interviews at all (or part of) the present topic, but this is likely to be a practice with a high level of embarrassment .... everyone thinks only about how to react if you saw invited to dance by a person unknown, as is normal in any room to dance, but of their own sex, what would he think? What face would you do? What would you say? So I think it's enough to put in practice a small dose of common sense, and to do some 'gym in most neurons, to understand that there is nothing scandalous or disgraceful in organizing evenings, local events or tout-court dedicated to Gay.com said the great Renzo, "Meditate, people, meditate!" Hello tuttiEnnio
Date: 30/04/2009 16.05io I think instead you should use another name to advertise, if you must, a milonga to dance between men and do not use the GAY word that refers to sex between two men. Since
'milongas as normal, you go to dance tango, and not to look for a girlfriend or boyfriend (if you do it as a side effect), the word gay is misplaced because it means that if a man invites you giàpensa tr ***** e.Se who organizes instead think about the tango between two men as "sex" between two men and 'better instead you devote to the second me.EMILIO
Date: May 2, 2009 2:26 confini.Please pm ignorance did not try again and check the Lonely Planet guides at Bs As nightlife. You will find out That the use of "gay" is Properly got to qualify as the style of the event ...... the word gay refers to sex between men?? Apple should not allow certain posts such as written ....... I'm from Carlito
Sat May 2, 2009 11:05 pm In the meantime let us know if Nicholas that his milonga is also straight-friendly, I invite everyone to take a deep breath, count to 10 and refer to wikipedia FIRST Writing, because, to quote a famous movie scene, "words are important!
If you want to discuss sexual orientation and activities invite interested parties to continue in private, but if you want to discuss the dance of same-sex couples have nothing to opporre.salutimela
Date: Sunday, May 3, 2009 10.18Brava Mela! Finally a bit of chiarezza.Anche to make people understand what Carlito who, before firing to zero, he thought to count to dieci.Mela said what I said. The milonga for men (or women who want to learn from men carrying another woman) does not necessarily imply the definition of sexual orientation (gay, etc. ..) Otherwise, poor Hermanos Macana. I'm gay too? EMILIO
Posted: Monday, May 4, 2009 10.12Chiedo apologize to the moderator and all, if I feel the need to "ignorant in this field" to seek some clarification on what is, without doubt how a milonga gay.Condivido that it is useless to express controversial or simply full of phrases pregiudizi.Sarebbe more useful to everyone better understand the phenomena and learn something from this vita.Io then I express my doubts and I thank in advance who will give me if I understood informazioni.Non milonga is only frequented by gay men dancing between loro.In Indeed, in the traditional milongas there are gay women having fun with dancing and having fun, and even sometimes you see people of the same sex (men or women) who dance together without any problems from that nessuno.Quello therefore want to understand is the "specific" of a gay milonga. How does it work? Who attended? E 'likely to be gathering place for people of that orientation sex are thus able to share their passion ballerina.Se even so, it seems to me that there is nothing strano.Soltanto Please's Friends gay milonga to express The concepts clearly, without having to initiate or guide Lovely Planet quotations inglese.Se I did not understand the way I apologize and I will be happy to receive a warm greeting chiarimenti.Un tutti.Mario
CONTRIBUTION BALLOROMO
Date: 10 May
2009 12:50 Dear friends,
For us the discussion and Malena 'was very useful. First, we agree with the common desire to avoid ghettoization. When we went dancing in the milongas Roman same-sex couple we have been accepted without much embarrassment. But we have not had 'the courage, however,' to invite another man or another woman to dance. A milonga avowedly open to same-sex couples or women who want to drive and to allow people who want to pursue more 'freedom' for all.
but I know 'that those who criticized the gay label is right, we should call it in another way. I helped with a deadline then it is clear to everyone?
Tango-queer? oe 'too intellectual? Another problem
and 'one of the lessons and the search for partners. The current classes are geared to couples of different sex couples in attendance, and require preformed. Yet we hear teachers say ... women behind me, the men face in the mirror. If you rotate partners there are strange embarrassment. And 'gay and lesbian natural that we seek a space in which we must remember that we are there too. So we organized
BalloRomo an association for the promotion of partner dance beyond the conventional roles. With us no one asks you to sexual orientation but not to 'assume that those who are' male or who should lead and 'women must follow, and there are no preformed pairs.
Who ' is concerned about the http://balloromo.blogspot.com/ Write
we need you and your advice to get more and more 'success, and dance, dance, DANCE.
I take this opportunity to invite talented dancers, heterosexual or not, to come dance with us to help us learn more 'and better. Thanks again Nicola
and staff BalloRomo
